Between the fear that it doesn't work, the trust to win each other, the compromises sometimes difficult to accept and the conflicts of the daily routine, living together can sometimes be a real challenge (but worth it). On your side, RAS, you feel perfectly ready to commit 100% to your relationship. It's rather at the level of your partner that it stuck a little. So, is he really in love or is it just you who ask too much? These 6 signs will put you on the path.
1. He shows little attention
Do you find that he gives you a few hugs and sends you a few SMS compared to you? If you are an overly demonstrative and emotional person, then it may just mean that he's more measured than you. This can also be related to a very high level of requirement on your part about it, which it doesn't necessarily account for. But in the case where you feel perfectly reasonable, then it may be time to ask yourself some questions. Because if we all have significantly different levels of romantic waiting, there's is still a minimum union to provide.
2. He avoids the confusion and doesn't try to settle your differences
When two people are in love with each other and clearly committed to their relationship, in principle, they have less difficulty in tackling problematic topics for problem-solving and conflict management. If your partner constantly avoids arguments and doesn't seem to care about bridging the disagreements between you, then maybe it's time to talk to him about it, to better understand what's going on in his head...
3. He doesn't like to project himself in the future
It changes the subject when you tell him about the destination of your next vacation and / or freaking out when you tell him that you would like to move into a slightly larger apartment? Good. We're not certainly going to teach you that this is not a good sign. Because either he doesn't care... or he's afraid. In the second case, patients will be your best ally. But in the first case, it may be time to expose your expectations very clearly to your partner, to know if you can consider a future together or not.
4. You take all the initiatives
"We need to talk", "I think we will have to change the way we behave on this subject". Do you feel that you are always the one who utters this kind of sentence to defuse a painful situation? It might be good to point it out to your partner, explaining that for you, it's not a pleasure, but it's still essential. Because this ostrich policy clearly denotes a lack of involvement on his part in your relationship.
5. It reveals you little intimate universe
It may take time to learn everything from your first half of your first day of school to your most difficult experience and to an exhaustive list of your ex-students. It's also understandable that some people avoid unpacking their entire intimate life in just a few months. Moreover, it has been proven many times that couples would benefit from maintaining some mystery. On the other hand, in the specific case where your partner doesn't tell you anything about his personal life or refuses to introduce you to his relatives, then there is certainly something to do with it.
6. You don't feel completely serene
You wonder constantly if he likes you enough (it's not for nothing that you have read this article to the end), and if he won't leave you suddenly one morning without warning? Two things: either you are completely paranoid and this feeling of insecurity is not attributable to your partner, or you are totally sane and the problem comes from him. In both cases, it's important to talk about it together to take stock and find solutions that will improve the situation.
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